czwartek, 6 kwietnia 2017

Thrifted: All of me.

jacket: WOW (thrifted), scarf: thrifted, leggings: lidl, bag:New Look, shoes: zara

Hello my dear readers! Today again I'll share with you with my thoughts, this time my main topic will be growing up. I don't know if there is any relatedness between my age and thoughts, but I think that the more older am I, the more wiser I come at different feelings. Honestly, I've started to understand that in all of the activities I do and all of decision I make I have to be stay "me". I used to be a girl, who did some things, because the others want that, a girl, who didn't speak aloud about what she really thought. I have no idea if my 26th birthday was that disruptive event in my life, but I've noticed that the girl about I wrote above, "doesn't live" in me anymore. I'm still learning how to say "no" and I'm still making some mistakes, but I open up to my self-development and I'm mentally changing. Hope that you'll like my post and if you don't mind, I'd love to hear about your thought about growing up. Have a lovely evening to all of you!

Witajcie moi drodzy! W dzisiejszym poście ponownie podzielę się z Wami z moimi przemyśleniami, tym razem będą one na temat dojrzewania. Nie wiem, czy istnieje jakieś powiązanie pomiędzy moimi myślami a wiekiem, ale prawda jest taka, że im jestem starsza, tym rozsądniej podchodzę do wielu kwestii. Szczerze powiedziawszy, dojrzałam do momentu, w którym zrozumiałam, że we wszystkich czynnościach, które robię oraz wszystkich decyzjach, które podejmuję muszę pozostać sobą. W przeszłości byłam dziewczyną, która robiła coś, ponieważ inni tak chcieli, dziewczyną, która nie mówiła głośno o swoich przemyśleniach. Nie wiem, czy moje 26-ste urodziny były tym przełomowym wydarzeniem, ale zauważyłam, że dziewczyna, o której wspomniałam już "we mnie nie mieszka". Wciąż uczę się jak mówić nie i - oczywiście - wciąż popełniam pewne błędy, ale widzę, że otwieram się na swój samorozwój.Mam nadzieję, że mój post Wam się spodoba oraz jeżeli nie macie nic przeciwko, to chętnie usłyszę Wasze opinie na temat wewnętrznych zmian. Życzę wszystkim udanego wieczoru, Kochani!

40 komentarzy:

  1. I would have never guessed from your picture that you are 26 years old, I would say 18 at most, you look so young :) I see a lot of myself in you, people think I`m younger than I am so therefore don`t take me seriously sometimes. I don`t speak my mind often but I`m trying to break that habit.

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  2. Interesting post

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  3. Well I think, this is pretty normal with growth, dear Ivonne!
    I mean, when you are little ypu have to follow what others say because you have not experience nor knowledge to know what way to follow and haw to get what you wnat, but the older you became and more confidence you get so this needing became useless and disappear! Or at least this is what I think about!^-^
    I've always been a girl that did what had to, and when I was very little to say no was a very disturbing thing to me; then I've learned to do what I wanted without say "no" and then I've finally found the way to be straight enough to say a no!
    Well, I still always manage to be gentle, comprensive and no offensive, but firm. And I think that is the best thing of getting older: you became more and more yourself! :D
    Anyway you look way youger than your 26 years old, sweetie!
    And I can see that finally sring has arrived even there! :D

    1. Hi Hun! Thanx for your sweet comment, I do understand better what you mean with this post!
      You know, to have a conversation on an abstract issue in a differente language that your mothertongue could be tricky! ;)
      Anyway I still think that is a really good thing that you change and became more and more confident with growth: this doesn't mean that you don't care about the happiness of the people around you, but that you know that you worth your slice of happiness as well! Not to mention that experience makes you able to recognize those who just take advantage of your kindness, and this is good, isn't it?
      Sure the fact that you was a kind and soft girl means that you have a really good heart, and this doesn't change with time!
      Have a great week end, doll!

  4. You look great!!!!!! Cool photos!!!!!!!

  5. You look great!!!!!! Cool photos!!!!!!!

  6. Ale wiosennie *.* Ja odkąd zaczęłam studia to postanowiłam być bardziej asertywna i mi się to udaje ;)

  7. Myślę, że w życiu bardzo ważne jest to, żebyśmy decydowali o czymś nie dlatego, że ktoś tak chce, tylko dla tego, że to MY tego chcemy. Nie widzę sensu robić coś czego nie lubię, bo chcą tego inni. :)
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  8. Chic bag :)
    Maria V.

  9. Młoda piękna i uśmiechnięta . Obs ??

  10. nice outfit

  11. I know what you mean dear. I was always the kind of person that tried to make everyone happy. I now realize that in life this causes only problems. It is very important to learn to say no and to stand up for what we believe in. We need to be realistic about others...and about ourselves. People don't always have good intentions.

    If we're really want to help anyone, we need to learn how to help ourselves first...we need to stand up for ourselves or others won't respect us. Trying to make everyone happy, doesn't help anyone in the end....and it drives us crazy. Nobody can make everyone happy.

    I do like your outfit. That scarf is very cute. You look adorable.

  12. I feel you! It still stresses me when I have to say 'no', it's stressing when I can't please everyone, I'm still working to become a better 'me' for myself not for someone else.
    Also: your outfit is soo nice! I love earthy tones!

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  13. super stylizacja, podoba mi się ogromnie. Szczególnie ta cudowna torebka :D

  14. I think we're definitely changing for the better as we grow... becoming more mature and knowing who we really are.
    Love this cozy jacket with the fur hoodie.
    Happy weekend! ❤ Radi

  15. Masz racje , we wszystkim cię robi trzeba pozostać sobą choć na pewno kosztuje nas to więcej nerwów ;-) Wyglądasz ślicznie i promiennie w tej stylizacji. Udanego weekendu Iwonko :-)

  16. Oh gosh! I'm so in love with the overall look. It's so chic! Love those coat, looks so cozy.

  17. Great post dear!
    Have a nice day! :)
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  18. Wiek zdecydowanie wpływa na rozsądek, mam tak samo jak Ty:)
    Ślicznie wyglądasz w tym warkoczu, super stylizacja:*

  19. Really nice look. I have the same "child department" velvet boots. xx
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  20. First of all, I really like your outfit and how you put the scarf below the hoodie. The braid looks so cute on you and once again I love to see the spring atmosphere on your photos :)
    You have no idea how much I can relate with your thoughts. I'm feeling exactly the same (despite the fact that I'm older than you :D). I think I'm the same kind of person and it's so hard to be who you are especially in situations that are out of your comfort zone. It's a process and I've made some progress but I'm still not close where I want to be. However, the most important thing is the desire to become better, to be YOU, your very best version. I really hope that one year from now you'll se that you've become that girl... ;)
    Have a lovely weekend, my dear! <3

  21. Dear Ivonne, you look so lovely, so sweet and beautiful and in a great place, with flowers! I loved the coat, super sweet color! As for being older and wiser, yes. You will see, the older you get, the wiser you will be. Only superficial people don't get wiser, but you are not superficial, so you are growing up and getting wiser. We have experiences that shape us, we get to know people the way we don't want to be - and even to them we have to be thankful, for showing us that. I am very glad to know you through our blogs, you are such a sweet soul! Ah, don't worry with the comment, it happens sometimes! I deleted that part! I hope you have a great weekend!

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  23. Wewenętrzne zmiany następują stopniowo. Ja mam dopiero 21 lat ale też coraz rozsądniej podchodzę do wielu kwestii. Chociaż najchętniej zostałabym nadal dzieckiem to wiele sytuacji wymaga by być bardziej odpowiedzialnym i "profesjonalnym".
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  24. Thank you for your comment too dear, your comments always brighten my day.

  25. I think that growing up is always very difficult, but it has a lot of good things too! The worst thing is that each time we have more responsibilities but, despite this, we always have to look for happiness and love us a lot. It is the most important!

    You look lovely, this combination of colours is great! And I really like your booties! :)

    xoxo dear ❤
    Melania |

  26. I agree that growing up really makes you think and behave differently. Now, I really care more about how I feel when I do things, rather than how others would feel or think. I'm definitely still learning and growing as a person, and it can be difficult at times to keep up with everything. We change so much with every day that the real us is constantly undergoing transformations. I think that there is never really an end to growing up.
    Aside from that, I really like that bag you showed here!

    ~Andrea Tiffany~

  27. You look so cute!

  28. We all learn and grow as individuals and I like to think that we become better versions of ourselves.:)

  29. You are so cute for my opinion I really love a spring flowers my dear too

  30. You look so young :) Love the spring photos x

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  31. You look soo nice!! I really love the bag and the shoes too :) happy Sunday! xx

  32. amazing!


  33. Stunning outfit! Love every single item. You look so classy and pretty Ivonne!

  34. What beautiful spring pictures, you look great!
    Have a lovely day :)
    Rosanna x
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